Some days you wake up and right when you are going
to begin your work, you feel a presence within you that stops you from
doing so. You sit down, but you sit down quietly this time. Suddenly,
that feeling where you once were so passionate and energized to take
action just isn’t there anymore. You try to hype yourself up but it’s
not working, and everything you do seems to be counterintuitive. You
face the truth. You don’t want to work today and you don’t feel
motivated to do anything but just escape. Without this motivation, you
feel a little hopeless, lost, and stuck.
Sometimes
we get stuck in a rut. If you’re not a hundred percent passionate about
your work, then it’s impossible to wake up everyday feeling motivated
when you wake up. You might compare it to the ocean. Sometimes you’ll
wake up feeling like a tsunami, other time you’ll feel like just barely
drifting to shore. When you feel like drifting to the shore, understand
that it doesn’t always have to feel like there’s no hope. You can still
feel inspired when there’s no motivation.
1. Connecting the Dots
“Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish.” –Steve Jobs
Steve
Jobs at a Stanford commencement speech said that giving this speech the
students was the closest thing he came to graduating college. He’s
never finished college. He recalls that the working class savings that
his parents had made their entire life was being spent on his tuition on
a college he says was as almost as expensive as Stanford. After 6
months, he couldn’t see the value in it and dropped out. Not knowing
where to go in life, he decided to take a class in calligraphy. He,
however, didn’t see any practical application for it in life.
Ten
years later, they were designing the first Macintosh computer, and it
all came back to him. He used the ideas that he had learned in
calligraphy class, including the different types of typography, and put
it in the Mac. It was the first computer to have beautiful typography,
which has affected the different types of typography that we use today.
If he had never dropped out in collage, he would have never taken that
calligraphy class, and personal computers might not have the wonderful
typography that they do today.
Sometimes when
you’re trying to reach a goal, it’s impossible to connect the dots where
you currently are. Somehow you just have to trust in yourself, and have
faith that you will reach your dreams, despite not having the slightest
clue or perfectly laid out road to where you are going. Nobody can
connect the dots looking forward; you only can connect them when you’re
looking backwards. You have to trust that the dots will somehow connect
in the future; you have to trust in something, whether it’s karma or
destiny, but trusting yourself is the first step towards feeling
inspired and having the motivation to move forward.
2. Allowing Your Environment to Predetermine Your Mood
“There is a direct correlation between an increased sphere of comfort and getting what you want.” –Timothy Ferriss
Tim
Ferriss has always advocated the idea of using your environment to your
advantage. He believes that controlling your environment is often much
more effective than relying on self discipline. He finds that he writes
the best between the hours of midnight and 1 AM to 3 to 4 in the
morning. As he is writing, he will put a movie in the background so it
will feel like he is in a social environment, even though the entire
movie is on mute. Next to him may be a glass of tea. This is what puts
him in the mood to do quality writing and make him so successful.
Look
around your room right now or your workspace. Does it inspire you? Does
it give you motivation? Is it noisy or quiet? Sometimes the hardest
thing we do to ourselves is try to force ourselves to work in an area
that is subconsciously telling us, “I can’t work here.”
And
when you are constantly trying to discipline yourself, you will feel
worse and be less productive. Instead try to build your ideal workplace
and ideal time. Free it from distractions. Perhaps add a piece of
artwork or a quote of your favorite person nearby you on the wall. Maybe
add a beautiful plant in the corner to give you inspiration. If you
feel more energy and enthusiasm during the night, schedule your day to
work at midnight if you can. If you can realize the power of having a
productive environment, you will naturally feel inspired and motivated
to get work done.
3. Don’t Work So Hard
“Research
now seems to indicate that one hour of inner action is worth seven
hours of out-in-the-world action. Think about that. You’re working too
hard.” –Jack Canfield
Jack Canfield was
once giving a speech to an audience. He tells of a story of a
chiropractor who went into his dream city, near Pebble Beach, and asked
chiropractor associate if they could hire them. They told him no because
they had 1 chiropractor for every 8 patients. Instead of letting his
external reality which was out of his control determine his future, he
went back to visualize and think about it, and something would come to
him. He put a pen in his new office one day, and put concentric circles
that he needed to go ask people in town that he was opening up a new
chiropractor office and if they were interested in joining.
Over
6 months he knocked on 12,500 doors, talked to 6,500 people, and
gathered over 4000 names to the people who wanted to go to his open
house. He opened his chiropractor in a town he was told there was too
many chiropractor. In his first month in practice, he netted $72,000. In
his first year in practice his gross income was over a million in
income.
Now you may look at this and say
knocking on 12,500 doors is hard work. To you it is, but to the man it
was probably effortless. Jack Canfield says there are 2 types of action –
outer and inner. Outer action is actually going out to do the action –
whether it’s networking with people, going door-to-door to make a sale,
or just writing at home. Inner action is other things like
visualization, meditation, and affirmations.
If
you’re trying to force your way into taking action, it could be a sign
that you are working too hard. Most people won’t wake up and waste an
hour visualizing, meditating, or affirming, and the first thing they
think about is asking what do I need to do today? And when they get the
answer, they feel miserable, as if their work suddenly weighs them down.
But Canfield says that if you spend time to focus on your goals, you’ll
receive good feelings – feelings that help you feel inspired and
motivated to take real action.
Don’t try to
paddle upstream. That’s just basically going everyday saying to yourself
that you need to force yourself to work every day. Instead, paddle
along the stream of the river. Trust yourself, let your environment work
in your favor, and spend some a little bit of time putting yourself in a
state before you work. Inspiration will come to you from different ways
– inside and out – and give you the motivation to guide yourself
towards reaching your dreams.
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